Helping Orphans In Kyrgyzstan

LAMb International works to help the orphaned children in Kyrgyzstan.

The Jeremiah House is a home for orphans in Kyrgyzstan that age out of the orphanage at age 15 with no where to go and no way to earn a living, as they won't legally be allowed to work in Kyrgyzstan for 3 more years. The Jeremiah House gives them a loving home and teaches them life skills such as cooking and sewing so that one day they will be able to live independently. Currently, the Jeremiah House has six former orphanage graduates: Altanye, Vika, Slavik, Aziz, Omerbeck, and Janabeck. They are preparing to receive three more youth who have no place to go after orphanage grade nine graduation.

DaySpring is a home in Kyrgyzstan for five orphaned girls, Jenya, Kristina, Annya, and Ulya. Olga and Costa our the "mom" and "dad" of the home and also have two biological children and a dog.

Both of these homes give the children not only the life skills they need to succeed and the love of family, but they also learn about a God who loves them greatly!

Here is a letter from LAMb International:

Dear Donors

We are a small charity. We work to ensure children have homes – forever families. Our work is to teach, train, and develop pilot projects to demonstrate making a difference in the orphan care movement. Right now we are focused on several very important projects in Kyrgyzstan:

1. Keeping children out of the orphanages and getting them into families –Dayspring

2. Helping gradating orphans who have no hope – find hope and a future –Jeremiah House

We are seeking funds to do repairs on our Dayspring home. We desperately need draft proof windows – to keep summer out and winter out. There are many needs – and we are seeking help from you. Our children need your support:

New Windows for Dayspring: $2,350
Painting Interior Walls: $1450
New Tires for Van: $425
Fix Roof: $750
Make a patio for children’s play: $1120
Fence for yard: $1000
Gate for Fence: $200
Entrance heat and lights: $460
TOTAL $7755

Let's raise the funds, $1 at a time, to help Dayspring and the Jeremiah house make their needed repairs! Can you give just $1 or more? Can share about the need on social media? Please help! All donations to LAMb International are tax deductible!

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You can keep up with Lamb International at the links below!

blog: www.lambinternational.blogspot.com  http://dayspringforkids.blogspot.com

Hosting & Adopting the Older Child {Guest Post by Erin}

I am so excited to share another guest post with you today! In June 2013, we featured the Johnson family on Give1Save1 Europe and raised $2,166 for them to adopt a sibling group of three boys from Ukraine. On November 14, 2013, D (age 11), N (age 9) and E (age 7) came home from Ukraine and joined their forever family. Erin has written an update for us about their adoption journey. I thought it would be encouraging to pre-adoptive and post-adoptive families and families considering orphan hosting!

We hosted our two oldest boys for a total of 3 times before adopting them all. I am a volunteer for our hosting organization and I can't say enough about how awesome older kids can be BUT also how I think hosting first is important if you have other younger kids in the house. Its not really an "interview process" for the kids, but a chance for you to get to know them and them to get to know you. The older kids in Ukraine have a choice if they want a family to adopt them. They have to write a letter saying they want to be adopted. We didn't go into hosting with the intent to adopt older boys. We just wanted to give an orphan a summer away from the orphanage. What ended up happening was we fell in love with them. We had three little kids already. Our two boys were 6 and 4 and our daughter was 5 when we hosted N for the first time in the summer of 2012. We decided to host D and N for Christmas mostly to prove to ourselves that what every said was true; you cannot adopt kids that much older than the ones you already have. Well, they were wrong. A few days before the boys had to go back to Ukraine, D asked us to adopt them all. We started the process a few days after they left. We hosted D again for the summer while waiting for our paperwork to be submitted to Ukraine. It was a great chance to bond more with just him, and for him to learn English. The first time we hosted D, he stayed zipped up in his jacket almost the entire time. He was so hurt and withdrawn. When he came back for summer, he was a different kid. He walked out with the host group up on his tip toes looking for me, asking where our other kids and the dogs were at!

We had to wait and wait and wait for our boys to come available for international adoption. When we FINALLY made it to Ukraine and walked into their orphanage it was like something out of a dream. The facilitator was telling us how the boys still had to agree to be adopted and he thought that they would probably say yes, but we had to ask them anyways. We sat down in the director's office and in came our boys. Every time we hosted, we met the boys with huge welcome signs at the airport that said, "Welcome to America!" They came in to meet us with welcome signs of their own that said, "Welcome to Ukraine Mother & Father." I cried. The director said, "So do you want them to adopt you?" "DA!!!"

We've been home for 3 months now and while we're all still adjusting, it has been amazingly smooth. With the two oldest having been here so much, it was like they just walked back into our house like they never left. They had beds, clothes, toys, and knew where everything was. The youngest boy (E) is the sweetest little guy and happily followed his brothers to America and a new life without ever looking back. We have had our share of the kids working through the new dynamic of additional siblings, and there have been fights, but nothing really mean spirited. Mostly we've had some frustration over our new kids feeling like they have to write their name on every.single.thing. that is theirs and wanting to start WWIII over someone else touching it or always always always wanting to be eating. These kinds of things are to be expected though and have been pretty easily addressed. Our boys started school within 3 weeks of being home and are doing really well. They were in school in Ukraine so it made for an easier transition to just enroll them here with our other kids as well.

The things I hear the most from people about hosting are, "I would host, but I don't think I could send them back. It seems cruel." Well, to them I like to present a question. If you died, and your kids were in an orphanage and someone had a chance to love them but only for a little while, would you rather they just left them and did nothing at all? Or would you rather they loved on them, got them dental care, bought them glasses, fed them, prayed over them, clothed them, taught them, and sent them back as they cried because they loved your child? Yes, its easier to do nothing, but I don't think our hearts do much good for God if they aren't breaking for what breaks His. An orphan's life is already cruel. Hosting offers hope.

The other thing I hear is, "I'd adopt, BUT I don't have the money." To them I say, neither did we! We started the process by sending a $200 check and a prayer with our application. The prayer was, "God if this is what we are supposed to do, You have to bring the money." Eight months and $40,000 later we were in Ukraine.

If you are interested in orphan hosting, please check out Children's Cultural Connection and New Horizon's for Children.

Thank you to Erin for sharing! Erin blogs at The Johnson Journals.

Waiting Well {and a Giveaway!}

Welcome my friend, Kelli, to our blog.  She has also offered an awesome giveaway for you! Details at the bottom....

To Wait:  to stay in place in expectation of………

Families in process of international adoption are by my definition, professionals at waiting. 

We wait and we wait…… on paperwork, on waitlists, on calls, on emails, on approval, on clearance.  The list feels endless sometimes. 

I admit there have been times in the wait I’ve wanted to lay on the floor like a two year old and kick and scream.  Sometimes it’s just plain hard.

So much of the time the “wait” comes with a negative connotation.  It might have a little bit to do with the 200 good intentioned people that ask us “when?”, “still?”, every week they see us. 

I recently posed a question about “the wait“ to some other adoptive moms & the responses I got were so beautiful and encouraging.

They said,

“My heartache & desperation has brought me into a connection with the Lord that is so deep & intimate I get chills when I think about it”.

“God changed my heart”.

 One mom stated she used the wait to enjoy time with her family before it grew and another recognized how God used the wait to refine her.  

Everyone’s wait looks so different. 

In my personal “wait” journey (which I never would have predicted would be more than 3 years) I’ve had the time I’ve needed to heal from the loss of my mom.   

Beth Moore said in her study on Esther, “never in our wait is God inactive”.   Although we may grow tired of hearing,  “ it’s all God’s timing,” perhaps we could try to see the wait from a different perspective.    Maybe we could let God use the wait to make us more like Him.   

The Bible is so full of promises for those who wait. 

Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.  I will say to myself ”the Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for Him”.  Lamentations 3:22-24 

I’m determined not to waste the “wait”.  How about you?

Check out these other encouraging verses for your wait:

Isaiah 40:31, Habakkuk 2:30, Ephesians 3:20, I Peter 5:6-7, Proverbs 16:9, Psalm 37:5, Proverbs 21:30, Matt 19:26 , Isaiah 54:10, I Thes 5:24, Habakkuk 3:17-19, Heb10:23, Isaiah 26:3-4, Luke 11:9, Proverbs 3:5-6, Psalm 4:8, Psalm 44:3, Psalm 37:7, Rom 15:13, James 1:12, Jeremiah 32:17, Psalm 40:1-3

                                                                                          -Kelli 
To enter the giveaway for one of her beautiful photographs, leave a comment with who you would like to have in your picture if you win! 

More about my friend...

Hi!  My name is Kelli Belt.  I’m a wife and mom of two boys, 12 & 9 and part of my heart is in Ethiopia as we wait the adoption of our daughter.

God has recently called me to use our "wait" to support a ministry in our daughter's birth land through the expansion of my photo gift business and recent partnership with Mercy Branch. Check it out @www.thenandnowdoubletakes.com